5 Ways to Disagree 5 Ways to Disagree It’s easier to agree than disagree. But we are able to learn a whole lot from conversations where we don’t see vision to eye — if we are able to rationally listen and talk, that is. However, many us either shy away totally from disagreements or drop it when points don’t go our way Read more . These 5 tips can help keep disagreements constructive — whether you’re talking to a mother or father, friend, or anyone else: Don’t make it personal. If you get upset, it can benefit to remember you’re mad at the theory or concept your mother or father is increasing, not the person.